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MARCH 2004 PGBarker54@aol.com ALL
ABOARD!!!!
As the steam locomotives of the Boston and Maine Railroad huffed and
puffed in the frigid air of the White River Junction train station and we bid
temporary farewells to dates from the women’s schools to our south, the
conductors’ call of “ALL ABOARD!” was a signal to head back to campus and
to prepare for Monday classes. Good
times, simpler times with nothing but pleasant memories of time spent in a
wonderland setting in the company of fun-loving, intelligent people. Well ....
let’s do it again! All Aboard for the 50th anniversary of our graduation from
Your Dartmouth-incrusted mail will increase in volume and intensity in
the coming months. As you receive this newsletter, you will likely receive the
deposit envelope along with a descriptive letter and an expanded list of those
intending to come to our 50th. Additionally, the College-sent materials in
regard to dormitory reservations should be in your hands. Then there are the
well-intentioned missives urging you to dig deeper for your participation in the
Class’s gift to
Since the January newsletter, the number of ‘54s intending to join us
in
Let’s talk Deposit Envelope. We’ve
now moved into the reality phase. Regardless of the fairly definitive Intentions
request, we’re now staring you square in the face and uttering the line that
won Cuba Gooding an Oscar: “Show me the money!” The traditional refund if
you pull out be June 1 still prevails, but history tells us that it rarely
happens. Money has already been laid out for unique pins for the distaff
attendees and other vendors will be looking to be financially satisfied in the
next few months. Let me state here and now so there will be no misunderstanding
at registration, NO, we don’t take plastic! Checks, money orders and gold
ingots will be accepted for the balances owed in June.
Note the names and telephone numbers of those in charge of various
activities - golf, tennis - and let them know you will be hitting balls with
Classmates. BOB BERRY, in particular, needs to know how many starting times he
needs, so call him at (973) 669-0146 or email him at Golfermum@aol.com.
For DAVE and LOUISE RANSOM, who will lead the Moosilauke excursion, I
have forwarded the names of those who indicated interest. If you would like to
make the climb and didn’t put it on your postcard, the Ransoms are reachable
at (802) 644-8144; spoons@sover.net.
Then there is the reunion extension at the Basin Harbor Club on
In answer to the many queries about what to wear, the entire reunion is
casual attire with the only exception being the Saturday night banquet where
coats/ties and party dresses will be the order of the day.
A suggestion relative to Dr. Hallowell’s presentation to us on Saturday
- pick up his book, Connect, and read his theses on how connecting with people
improves your life and your perspectives of it. Connecting has been the theme of
the many ‘54 activities that have attracted large groups of Classmates for
many years. Not a bad idea even if you are not able to join us in June.
Amazon.com can send you a reasonably priced paperback copy of the good
doctor’s text.
Note that Saturday’s activities now include the induction of DAN
McCARTHY into the honor society of Phi Beta Kappa - an honor bestowed on a
deserving member of the 50th class by a faculty committee. The Phi Beta Kappa
distinction is one awarded to those who achieve a given high level of academic
achievement. We had 28 so honored in our junior year and another 31 in senior
year. JIM DOIG was inducted as an
alumni member in 1984. A total of 70. Dan’s selection is of particular note,
recalling his deep involvement in academic endeavors as described in the last
newsletter. But better than that, as an award-winning hockey player, he likely
took more than his share of blows to the head and, the capper, he’s a DKE!
Another addition to the Saturday schedule is a panel presentation led by
Dr. C. Everett Koop, on our experiences with alcohol while in college and now,
in our 70’s. A recent article
regarding DCARE began with a clever and appropriate phrase: “Drinking and
So -- a very full schedule which will offer you a number of interesting
choices. For those returning after decades, it will be both memorable and
eye-opening.
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On May 14, the Wearers of the Green will convene in
The current issue of ********************
Obscurity is my only successfully completed life-goal. *******************
Perusing the Aegis for stats on hockey men McCarthy and Peters, I
happened on JAKE TOWLE, another four-year veteran of the sport of blades and
sticks. He, too, was there when, in
1953, Eddie Jeremiah, admiring the new artificial ice rink, made the great
comment about accepting the fake ice as long as he could still have natural
hockey players. In the 70s, Jake
came to grips with life and its lack of fairness and devoted his life to helping
the less fortunate. His entry in Reflections bears a rereading. Best wishes go
out from the Class.
From DICK SHELLEY: “The infamous Shelley-Kenyon motorcycle accident of
Thanksgiving ‘51 (near
The cover of the November issue of American Time magazine features a
grinning, nicely turned-out RALPH DESTINO with his Cartier watch nicely
displayed. The interview piece inside begins with “With his affable smile and
fondness for story-telling, Ralph Destino is a down-to-earth guide to the lofty
world of luxury.” The article proceeds to provide the reasons for Ralph’s
prominence in the “fine things” profession and one feels the urge to trample
the ticking piece of junk on one’s wrist and to immediately
seek out a timepiece that would meet Ralph’s standards.
On his Greencard, “I just finished my 30th year with CARTIER, 17 of
them as president, 11 as chairman and now 2 as chairman-emeritus. I’ve gone
from being CEO to CDO, i.e., the Chief Dinosaur Officer .... all of which means
I’ve seen my workweek go from 7 days to 6 days to 5 days and now to 4 - see a
trend developing here?” Nice. Presidential
Commission
At the end of the reunion, we will set President DICK LEWIS adrift and
begin to accustom ourselves to the leadership styles of a new ‘54 in power. As
previously announced, JERRY GOLDSTEIN agreed to head a team of former presidents
(TOM KELSEY, BOB BERRY and STEVE
MULLINS) to determine a proper candidate for the job - one who is up to the task
and one who has a tolerance for the foibles of a large group of Indian-symbol
loving senior citizens. The committee plans to convene its first meeting in
March, so help ‘em out with suggestions. Best done by telephone so that the
bases for the recommendations can be discussed: Jerry (office) 212-272-2450; Tom
908-771-9368; Bob 561-336-7955; Steve 847-866-8887. Traveling
‘54s
We continue to explore the girdled earth. BARBARA and DICK BARKER
abandoned the frosty climes of From
WIL Bequests
Gift Planning Chair, BOB OSMOND reports that, during the months of
November and December 2003, three Classmates established planned gifts.
One Classmate established a flexible gift annuity with securities having
a value of $13,543 for himself and his wife. Another set up a charitable gift
annuity with a cash gift of $10,000 for his benefit and a third put together a
remainder unitrust with securities valued at $24,984 for the benefit of himself
and his wife. When all three plans terminate, the proceeds will support
unrestricted purposes at
JOE MESICS has put forth a chiding note to the editor for my misuse of
the the word enervate: “I’m certain you’ll receive word from Classmates
that explains that to enervate is to
deprive of vigor (sexual, e.g.). I, for almost a complete life, have used the
word to suggest the opposite of it’s meaning. Could it be that English
Professor Booth infected us ‘54s with this virus? Cold we have misunderstood
(hung over) when he said elevate? Enervated, elevated - who cares? Guess we all
do.” Noted.
Two Public Service interns who were helped by the Class’s contribution
to the program, sent thank you notes. Matt Miller is in
‘53 Out!, Don Goss’s fine newsletter, deigned to include a photograph
of a DKE mini-reunion that included BOB PRICE and DICK LEARY. Memorial
Thoughts
Our departed Classmates will be well honored and remembered at the
Memorial Service in Rollins Chapel. Two Classmates, however, have suggested
ideas for being a little more specific and personal about our thoughts.
From DAVE RANSOM: “This past summer, LOUISE and I were rewarded in
doing a memorial hike for our four friends who died this past year. Hikers may
want to declare their Moosilauke trip to be in the memory of cherished ones.
Carrying the names of friends, or a pebble to be dropped at the top are ways to
give special meaning to the return to a
HARRY ROBINSON dedicates each check he sends to the Dartmouth Fund to
‘54 friends who have left us. The
College publishes an In Memoriam booklet each year and I take great pleasure in
nabbing the first position with a gift in the name of my ancestor, Nathan Church
of the Class of 1784.
Retirement from estate practice has put BOB DURHAM into search mode for
activities which will get him out of the house 3/4 days a week. Those of you
thank have been successful in similar searches should drop some suggestions to
Bob. The Durhams will be joined by ED and
BRENDA HAYES at the reunion.
KIRK KIRKPATRICK waxes a little eloquently: “Wife JENNY still in real
estate - loves it! Son Scott, 38, runs a small hedge fund in
Class Treasurer Harry Robinson gets a bundle
of commentary from Classmates with their dues checks.
HUGH NOLIN, still basking in the enjoyment of the
HUGH ROBERTS enclosed a picture of an earthen pot between the
exhortations “Remember the Past .... Imagine the Future.”KY LEWIS posited
that, rather then attend the mini-reunion, he had spent the allotted funds on
himself. BILL GROVER
has arranged to become a member of the College’s Bartlett Tower Society
by means of his will. DICK LEARY was
grateful for Harry’s return of his second check (it still happens).
Lastly, Harry reports the receipt of Class dues from no less than 13
widows! Much appreciated and hopefully a beacon for those who can’t manage to
pay their share.
ROCK GRUNDMAN aka “Red” welcomed the introduction of broadband
wireless into the more remote parts of
While many of us have wandered away from the Penpal Project, the
Classmates who lucked into active and intriguing connections with ‘04s
continue to enjoy them and nurture them:
-BOB WHITE: “I want to report that my pairing with a member of the
Class of 2004 proceeded very favorably. i was paired with Mr. Mark Lawley, a
writer and novelist. Mr. Lawley mailed several chapters of his work-in-progress
to me. i read these chapters, made notations and sent along constructive
criticisms which he is incorporating - some of them - in his novel, still in the
works, but due this year.”
-JOHN FENN’s two penpals have totally different interests. Jenny
Sharfstein wants career guidance on historical research and writing for
documentary films or television presentations. Wisely, she is keeping her
options open through exploring opportunities through the Film and Television
Studies Dept. C.W. Kung must return to his native *********************
THE CLASS OF 1954 AWARD
You arrived in
After four years of intensive education,
In 1965, you joined with two compadres to form a practice in
Life today includes a working farm, supplying 6000 bales annually to the
“racehorse crowd”, pride in progeny Joshua, Adam, Benjamin and Elizabeth,
three of whom are Green and occasional ventures into the wild blue yonder.
Disappointment in the purging of the Indian symbol did not deter you from
serving as secretary, then as president of the Eastern New York Dartmouth Club.
Nor a substantial commitment to name the porch at the Center for Jewish Life.
“Tiger”, you make us look good! We are proud to present you with The
Class of 1954 Award.
October 2003 Dick Lewis President |